“I am exhausted with trying to be stronger than I feel.”
Ever felt that way?
What do you do when you have to fight on, to put on a brave face, and pretend to the world that you’re happy and strong, and that life is going well?
We can do that for a while. We can smile, and act the part.
But eventually we crash. Our supply gets all used up.
So if you’re feeling this way now, pay attention to the signs.
Tell yourself you’re too worn out. Way too tired to wear a mask.
Then withdraw for a while, and invest in yourself.
It’s OK to feel weak, and to care for yourself.
I agree! Sometimes we need to stop life in its tracks and take care of Number One.
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It can be hard to do … but yes we do 🙂 Thanks for the comment!
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Good post, I often get into this state. You can only be strong in public for so long. At the moment that is twice a week. I loath going out because the Egyptians call me Corona women encourage their children to be rude whilst they hide behind their niqab. Withdrawing some self TLC is needed. I find healing naps useful. I ask for healing before taking a nap which means it will be a deeper sleep than normal. This is one thing the lockdown has made easier and that is not going out. It is possible to withdraw without being questioned and give yourself a chance to boost up your strength, resilience, and health.
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Thanks for such a thoughtful comment. I really feel for you, and am not surprised you loathe going out in public. That sounds horrible. I’m glad you have found a way of boosting your strength and resilience. Taking healing naps is a wonderful idea.
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Thank you you take care and Blessings
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I wore a mask for the longest time and it is exhausting. I won’t do it anymore. I’ve learned that eventually it can separate you from the origin of you feeling bad or uneasy. As a result you (me) feel bad without knowing what it is all about. You can reason some things away but the feeling will stay.
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I find it exhausting too. I also feel it puts up a barrier between you and the world. That physical distancing, and hiding your face puts a degree of emotional distancing and detachment – it creates a bit of a wall – and changes relationships in a strange way. I hope you are able to figure out what it is about the experience that leaves you feeling bad. Take care of yourself 🙂
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I will and I sure do, little step by little step 🙂
I hope you take care of you too!
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Thanks 🙂
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Definitely but sometimes that’s what we have to do…
Love, light and glitter
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Yes it is 🙂 Thanks for reading and commenting Eliza. Have a lovely week.
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Reblogged this on Survivors Blog Here.
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I am right there. Thank you!
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Thanks for reading and commenting Amber 🙂
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Definitely take care of #1. Please look into my blog for a future post ” UR WORDS” in the next couple days. It’s about 43+ years of narcissism. Terrible terrible abuse
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Thanks for the heads up. I will definitely do that. It sounds like you – or someone you know – has experienced some major traumas.
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I released the post….let me know what u think🙏
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Sending hugs and Peace my friend Shalom 💫🕯💫🕯
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Thank you!
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