At times, it’s almost impossible to believe that we will get better, and be our old selves.
There are days when ‘two steps forward, and one step back’ becomes ‘one step forwards, and ten steps back’.
Those are the days when you give in to despair.
No matter how hard you try, you can’t recover from the trauma.
You hate your partner for what they’ve done to you.
You’re frustrated with yourself for it seems you can’t move on.
Those are the awful days we all battle with.
And that’s why it means so much when others share their struggles. And talk about their journey. What it’s been like for them.
It’s like they’re holding up a mirror where we see not just them … but we also see ourselves, and we see our life, as well.
It encourages us to think: “You, and I … We’re both the same. You have felt what I have felt, and you’ve struggled, just like me … And look at how changed. Look at where you are today!
So if you have survived, then perhaps I can as well.
And if you can thrive, then perhaps I can as well.”
That powerful realization renews our sense of hope.
It helps renew our strength.
It renews our will to fight.
“One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through. And it will be someone’ else’s survival guide.”