“Beautiful girl, take care of yourself. No-one else knows what your soul needs.”
Do you actually know what your soul needs just now?
Really figuring that out, can be difficult at times.
First, we need to find a way to successfully detach from the never-ending list of “must’s”, “ought’s” and “should’s”.
From being the right partner/ mother/ daughter/ sister/ friend.
From that guilt-inducing list of responsibilities.
And often that can be the hardest part of all.
But you really need to do it.
You need to detach.
You need to make it possible to listen to your heart.
And when you do, you will find that your soul starts to speak. It will start to give you hints. It will tell you what you need.
It might be something very simple. Something small and practical like relaxing on your own. Curled up snuggly with a book.
Or it might be something deeper like the need to mourn and grieve for the heartache, disappointment and the pain that you’ve been through.
Or the need to stop comparing. And the need to like yourself. To work harder on self-love, and being comfortable with you.
But whatever it is … your heart and soul already know.
And they’ll share that secret with you, if you’ll listen carefully.
Such important advice..I tried so long to be the good sister and daughter.. I am feeling a lot happier not doing that any more.. Thanks so much for this..
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I’ve been there too and you just feel like a failure in the end. Glad you are taking care of yourself ❤️
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So true. I know that feeling of failure so well.
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Beautiful post ❤️ amazing advice ❣️
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I agree asthaisha, very beautiful post indeed 🙂
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Thank you, Singshma. I appreciate your kind words ❤️
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Thanks for taking the time to read and comment asthaisha. Have a lovely day ❤️
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Reblogged this on Disablities & Mental Health Issues.
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Thanks for the reblog Ken. Much appreciated 😊
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As always, no problem!
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Great.
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Excellent post… woulda, shoulda, coulda is Never a good idea.. ❤️
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No, and yet we fall into it all the time… or, at least, I do! 😂
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soooo true!!!! but we begin again and that’s the best we can do! ❤️❤️❤️
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Yes, you are absolutely right. Good to hear from you Cindy 💕
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❤️🤗 Always happy to visit! ❤️
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Are we chattering, will we, the answer is we call them “gut” feelings. Woman are born with a seventh-inning sense commonly know as run for your life…. 😁😁 congratulations 🎉 Master of the Pen ✒️
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