This is why it came as such a shock:
He was hiding secrets from you.
Little secrets you never knew.
Little secrets that grew and grew.
Little secrets that became big lies.
A web of deception that took over his life.
This is why it came as such a shock:
He was hiding secrets from you.
Little secrets you never knew.
Little secrets that grew and grew.
Little secrets that became big lies.
A web of deception that took over his life.
True.
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Yep …
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So very true. What at first was most likely difficult for him to stomach, and of course he would never do it again, became habit… a lifestyle. As if my feelings somehow became less significant, because I was never going to find out anyway.
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Yes … we kid ourselves that it won’t have any effect on ourselves or others. Such a lie. Instead we become entangled and trapped, and we ruin our life and our partner’s life. Secrets are dangerous.
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yes, its all about that confidence they have about not being 100% honest and open with the other party. They think that they need not share these information. But especially in a marriage these little secrets build up into castles and appear out of no where as a shock to the spouse they are married to.
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You’re absolutely right. Castles is a good way to describe it.
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Yup. That’s about it right there.
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